What it may look like & how it's linked to abundance
Since I did my very first round of the brand new INFINITE Expansion Formula (a powerful yet simple 3-week journey using 3 INFINITE crystalline, intentionally charged essential oil-blends and 3 INFINITE energetic audio alignments to align your vortex with your higher Self) right before christmas, and as I've continued working on both opening its energetic portal for my clients and also manifesting the written material into 3D these last weeks, my life and heart has been opening up, letting go and surrendering to healing in such a deep way!
From last week as I was sending out the new material for the “Love week” of the Formula to the first group of participants, I have experienced very up close and very personal, how asking for expansion of the heart is intrinsically linked with healing.
Your heart cant expand if it isn't strong; it will burst.
It cant expand if it isn't whole, as it can't hold the new.
It can't expand if your boundaries aren't sound; it will flow out.
It can't expand if its crowded, heavy or grieving.
But letting your heart heal and expand is a good thing - if not crucial - although it may not feel like expansion right now.
It many feel uncomfortable.
It may feel like I'm going a step back instead of two forward.
But my higher Self knows this is what expansion means to me right now, and I have decided to trust and lean into it. To make my days soft and easy while my heart and body is healing.
Healing may look so very different from what we think it does!
Healing may look like:
- Dissolving and removal of guilt
- Healing of the womb / hara chakra to open the creative force
- Grieving loss
- Allowing more self-care
- Allowing yourself firmer boundaries
- Letting go of pride
- Listening to your wise, loving body – your guide and anchor in this 3C world!
- Letting go of co-dependency
- God/dess / Universe / Love / higher Self
- Other people's way and guides
- Self to know, see and act in the best and loving way
- Surrendering the need for things to be other than they are
- The realization that everything is perfectly imperfect
- Acceptance of Self for what it is right now! Unconditionally!
- Realizing that unconditional love needs no-one (including Self) to change!
- Wide-eyed holding of the truth versus closing eyes for what I don't agree with or don't want to see!
It always takes trust when healing.
Trust in the process, trust in the universe, trust in my own intentions.
I find that nearly always when healing occurs, I question myself and whether what I'm experiencing truly is healing, because in the moment, your actually feel worse. "Oh, no, I didn't do this to feel worse! I did this to feel better!! Is how I feel now just another bout of lethargy or blues? Did I call this down on myself for no good reason?"
But trust and surrendering to the process is really what unconditional love is about isn't it? Because if I don't judge, there is no reason to question. And if I don't question, I am flowing with life, its seasons, rhythms and changes. And I feel so much freer and at peace when I don't have to use my brain and mind to judge and analyze everything that occurs.
It takes a lot of energy to heal
On a cellular end energetic level, this work is comparable to heavy labor work-days. So I have learnt to not be hard on myself because I am tired and can't seem to follow the schedule I have set up for myself. So I let myself take a nap. Wear my one-piece and slowly drink tea. Use my oils and meditate. Pick some soothing crystals to keep in my pockets and under my pillow. And most of all; Extend compassion, patience and love towards my inner child that feels very unsettled and stressed.
This means that when you have had the intention to heal and taken whatever measure you feel is needed to receive healing, you must, in a way more importantly, also add time, patience and infinite being to the process.
The best advice ever when healing - and in any other case of life too, actually - is treating yourself like a baby:
- Eat healthy and regularly
- Get enough sleep
- Take naps
- Get out in nature and breathe fresh air
- Move your body
Intending for and allowing healing is actually consciously creating a life with a web of self-loving care and activities to hold yourself like the warm embrace of a mother.It is extending unconditional love, compassion and patience to yourself without demanding results or showing improvement.
Give yourself the love and attention that you crave and long for!
Because unconditional love is what it's all about, what all true growth and healing comes from.
And for it to be genuine and working, you HAVE to start with yourself.
Healing and abundance
There's also an interesting connection between prosperity and healing of the heart. Because your self-love is the cup/container that holds your prosperity. If your self-love -acceptance and -respect - have holes or tears in them or your cup is just quite small...well, your prosperity will be equal. It will drip, gently flow out and just not stay with you.
And in a way it makes sense, doesn't it; If you don't love yourself, you don't feel worthy. And if you don't feel worthy, you don't feel you deserve abundance. And if you don't feel it, you can't have it. That's the Law of the Attraction.
That's why both love and abundance are so interwoven; they are both inside jobs.
You have to start giving it to yourself before you see it reflected in your outer world. But once you do, you will not be dependent on specific persons or situations for love and abundance to flow into your life. You will simply attract it, as you carry its vibration inside yourself.
It's that easy.
And that challenging.
But it's completely doable, because you carry it in your heart, my love!
YOU are the treasure, you are the love.
You just need to remember it.